Posts Tagged ‘Love and Fidelity Network’

Love & Fidelity Conference: Sexuality, Integrity and the University

Thursday, October 28th, 2010

Register before Nov. 1 for this annual conference  at Princeton University on November 12 & 13.

It begins Friday (8 pm) with “Friends with Benefits or the Benefits of Friends? The fall of friendship in the hookup culture and the need for its restoration to relationships.”

Saturday’s fare includes “Masculinity and the Real Man” and “Feminism and Femininity,” breakout sessions for students and faculty, and an expert Q&A panel.

Love & Fidelity Network’s third annual conference looks to be a good one.

Is Hook-Up Fatigue Setting In?

Wednesday, April 21st, 2010

It looks that way.  Stephanie Chen’s CNN article, No Hooking Up, No Sex for Some Co-eds, reports students are choosing to disengage from the often alcohol-fueled hook-up scene that leaves many women with a hangover of the blues even if they manage to avoid getting a sexually transmitted disease. 

It shouldn’t come as a surprise.  While some researchers have found no long-term harmful psychological damage from hooking-up, other studies, writes Chen, “have shown the instability from hooking up can cause depression.  Repeated rejection and detached relationships can also damage self-esteem.”  Even researchers who discount psychological damage warn that the hook-up culture has become a “direct route for spreading STDs,” since those who practice this type of sex tend to engage with many more partners.  

A growing body of evidence suggests women and men have very different morning-after reactions to friends-with-benefits, hooking up, and similar nonromantic sexual relations.

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