Archive for January, 2010

Stench from 40 years of feminism

Wednesday, January 27th, 2010

ABC News previewed a short clip of Oral Sex is the New Goodnight Kiss a while back.   The documentary captures pre-teen and teen-age girls discussing oral sex – and prostitution – as casually as the weather.   Ordinary girls from middle- and upper-middle class families who see no harm in offering their bodies for money, homework, or a new handbag.

“Five minutes and I got $100.  If I’m going to sleep with them anyway because they’re good-looking, might as well get paid for it, right?”

“This is the bitter fruit of forty years of feminist domination in the United States,” writes Pamela Geller, who argues that the public schools, the culture, and the children in them have been poisoned by the left’s attitude toward sex.   

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Divorcing sex from feelings and attachment

Wednesday, January 27th, 2010

The Week had a thoughtful article recently on love in the time of hooking up (full article posted here and here). 

“In the dating era, students would go on a date, which might lead to something sexual,” says Kathleen Bogle, a sociologist at Philadephia’s La Salle University.  “In the hookup era, students hook up, which might lead to dating.”

Is hooking up harmful?  Depends on whether you ask peers or professionals.

Many college kids scoff at that very question.  They say they’re just having fun, and that as long as both people understand the terms, it’s win-win.  But some health professionals have raised alarms about the spread of sexually transmitted disease, and warn that many young adults are paying a price for learning to divorce sex from feelings and attachments.

“They don’t learn to build that emotional intimacy before they get physically intimate,” says adolescent gynecologist Melissa Holmes.  “They may grow up not knowing how to connect with a partner on an intimate level.” 

James Cox, director of the counseling center at the University of Pittsburg, says more than a quarter of his clients come in with anxiety, depression, and other emotional problems because their relationships feel superficial and confusing. 

“Hooking up is like any other kind of peer pressure,” he says.  “We need to encourage students to make independent, healthy choices.”  That may be especially true for women.

Why especially for women?

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A feminist worries about teens and porn

Wednesday, January 27th, 2010

Carolyn Moynihan at Mercatornet previews of a feminist’s new book.

A British feminist is sounding the alarm about the effects on teenagers of easy access to pornography, saying that a skewed view of sex is becoming the norm in society and the idea of intimacy is dying.

Natasha Walter tackles this subject in a book, Living Dolls, due to be published early in February, which looks at the resurgence of sexism in contemporary culture. 

Could a feminist be regretting the sexual revolution?  Not a chance.  Walter only regrets that the women who tried to emulate the wanton behavior of bad boys during the last few decades haven’t achieved ‘equality’.  She thinks children’s ‘voyeuristic’ view of sex is bad for women because:

“This means that men are still encouraged, through most pornographic materials, to see women as objects, and women are still encouraged much of the time to concentrate on their sexual allure rather than their imagination or pleasure.  No wonder we have seen the rise of the idea that erotic experience will necessarily involve, for women, a performance in which they will be judged visually.”

Moynihan takes issue with Walter’s new twist on the old feminist whine:

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Can abortion be decoupled from feminism?

Friday, January 15th, 2010

Washington Post’s Anne Kornblut, author of Notes from the Cracked Ceiling, moderated a panel discussion recently on the evolving nature of feminism.  Kornblut opened the discussion with How often have we heard that feminism is dead?  Is it?

Syndicated newspaper columnist Kathleen Parker suggested the movement that demanded a certain way of thinking — one requiring every woman to sign on to a specific platform — is dead.  Once there was no longer any space for women who disagreed with that platform, the old feminism had run its course.   But feminism is far from dead;  it’s reincarnating in a different way.

Former McCain-Palin advisor Nicolle Wallace said there is no shared form of reference for what feminism means anymore.  Wallace discussed Sarah Palin’s responses to different questions that drew distinctions between ‘equality’ feminism and ‘reproductive rights/abortion’ feminism.

Those distinctions are important.  Equality unites women.  Abortion divides them, and it does so in extreme and unexpected ways.

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No health care for STDs, drunkenness and other ‘failures of personal responsibility’

Thursday, January 14th, 2010

Though he doesn’t heed his own advice, New York’s Mayor Michael Bloomberg has no hesitation forcing others to live by it.

Emboldened by successful drives to reduce smoking, obesity and the use of trans fats in New York city, mayor Michael Bloomberg today opened a new front in healthy living for New Yorkers by launching a campaign to reduce consumption of salt.

If a politician can grab this kind of power from a non-health care political office, imagine the kind of power he’d wield if he were appointed to a seat on some future nationalized Health Care Panel charged with making policy decisions about who gets what kind of medical care.

‘Personal responsibility’ and ‘disease prevention’ loom large in the current national health care reform debate.   But what if ‘personal responsibility’ became a condition for obtaining medical care?  A history of good behavior gave someone a pass to the head of the medical treatment line, while bad behavior relegated one to the end of the line or out of the queue altogether?

Who would define ‘good’ and ‘bad’?  Politicians, of course.  And that should terrify everyone regardless of his or her political persuasion.

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