I came across this article today from AskMen.com instructing men to “Be More Like Edward,” referring to the character Edward Cullen from the Twilight series. Even though I do like Twilight, I’m not exactly obsessive and when I saw the title of this article I thought it would be sappy and silly. However, I was pleasantly surprised at how astute the gentleman at AskMen.com are when it comes to interpreting why ladies drool over a fictional vampire. In addition to breaking down the reasons, the article also provides quite good advice for men in emulating Edward’s swoon-worthy qualities. My favorite tip in the article is this one:
“Always do the basic chivalrous things your dad taught you: open her doors, help her with her jacket, pull out her chair, walk closest to the street, etc. And don’t do this only for her, but for all women. Show respect not just to your girl, but to the important people in your life and hers.”
You can read the entire article here.
Now, I’m sure if I dug around AskMen.com I would probably find at least one article less gentlemanly than this one, however the fact that they even have this article at all is very telling of desired relationship dynamics between the average man and woman, something feminists simply refuse to acknowledge.
When compared with the cover of, say, a Cosmopolitan magazine, the AskMen.com article makes it impossible to ignore just how degrading these “women’s” magazines are. Instead of talking about finding a man with Edward-like qualities and being the type of lady who would attract that kind ofguy, Cosmo covers have tips on “Bad Girl Sex: These 12 Moves Will Show Him Your Really Naughty Side,” and “Little Mouth Moves that Make Sex Hotter.” Classy. Check out this mock-up of a compilation of Cosmo headlines (click the image to read an excellent article on how feminism has ruined women’s lives):
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